Getting your date from the bar to the bedroom isn’t a task that everyone can nail down, and we understand that. Fortunately, with our help and our knowledge about dating rules, we can make sure that you have a great time with your leading lady of the evening. You’ll be able to get her into your hotel room in no time if you follow our dating tips.
If you want to know how to get laid, then you’ve come to the right place. The thing is, we know all about getting these ladies into the sack, and if they’re already meeting you in person, then you’ve got most of the battle done and done. You won’t have that much of a difficult time getting laid from there if you know what to say, and frankly, what not to say. We’ve got this down to a science, and it’s honestly something that you can learn pretty darn easily, too.
Talk about her interests.
Obviously, you connected on a dating site in the first place through common interests or even just a common sexual fetish, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t talk about it more over dinner. You need to break the ice on the first date, and you can really relax over a hotel bar with a few wine samples in hand. You want to make sure that you’re trying to make her laugh, but you’re not pushing too hard on that subject. Just relax, talk about the things that you like, and you two will be able to connect in no time.
You want to avoid anything that makes her uncomfortable, or could potentially make her feel uncomfortable. If you want to narrow it down, then you need to just stay away from politics and religion unless the two of you have already talked about it online, and you have similar interests. You can talk about some current events, but make sure that you aren’t trying to make it into anything political there, either. This will make you both a lot more comfortable, and you won’t end up talking about things that could potentially frustrate you and make the date more difficult.
Always lead towards the close.
Once you two are more comfortable around one another, you can start leading towards the close. Try to wrap up dinner, and let her know that you have a hotel room right upstairs if she’d like to go relax for awhile. She’s probably going to get the hint at that point, and realize that you’re talking about actually having sex with her. If you’ve played your cards right and you two are really getting along, then the two of you will be able to go right up there and get down and dirty. This will make your life a lot easier for sure.
You also want to make sure that you both aren’t drunk. Don’t drink unless she drinks as a general rule; this is an important thing to remember. Make sure that she’s happy enough to go up with you and not kind of hemming and hawing about it. Any hesitation means that she might stop in the middle of things, and if the two of you aren’t already talking about sex discreetly over the dinner, then you’re probably not going to end up getting in bed with her. You have to make sure that you’re going in the right direction from the start.