If you’ve already brought her along to meet your friends, then she’s going to want to do the same with you. Meeting her friends doesn’t have to be any kind of a big deal, but making sure that you’re prepared and on your best behavior is going to be a big part of making a good impression. You don’t want to make a fool of yourself, obviously.
You want to make a good impression.Meeting a lot of ladies means that you’re going to eventually find women that you want to get closer to. Even if you weren’t originally out there looking for relationships, casual sex can lead to that, and that’s why you do need to be prepared to meet her friends. In general, this doesn’t have to be a big deal; you can just end up casually being brought along to a dinner, and you need to know how to talk to them normally. Fortunately, we can help with this. We’ve done it a million times.
Clean yourself up.
Your lady might be pretty used to you looking disheveled, but that doesn’t mean that you need to show up to any dinner with her looking like that. Clean up like you would for a date, because you’re basically going on a date with her to meet her friends. That means showering, fixing your hair up, and generally smelling nice. Put on some clean clothes, though don’t worry about dressing up too much. You’re not going there to look like a groom to be; you just want to look like you didn’t roll out of a gutter only a day ago.
If you look clean and are ready to be polite, then you’re basically 99% of the way there. Even if you initially just met her for sex, that doesn’t mean that you can’t become a pretty darn respectable boyfriend. She’ll appreciate the effort that you’re putting into the occasion, and even if you’re nervous, there are a number of ways to get around that and really start to feel comfortable around her friends. If you let her know, she’ll probably be able to help you along, just like you helped her along when she went to meet your friends.
Get some insider info.
Chatting with her about her friends is a great way to break the ice before you even arrive. Learn their names and what they do for a living, and figure out what they’re into before you even show up. That way, you’ll have something to talk about, and you’ll really be able to narrow down what works for you in order to relax around them. If you’ve got something to talk about, that’s always going to make things easier, and we personally love at least having one person to hang out with at a party.
Even if you feel awkward, don’t keep hovering around her the whole time. Try to mingle and socialize, and you’re going to end up making a much better impression on her friends. They’ll appreciate that you’re trying to be outgoing and fun, and the more helpful you are, the better. Obviously, you don’t want to come off as a busy body that’s trying too hard, but if you’re at least attempting to be sociable and polite the whole time, you’re going to stand a much more solid chance of getting her friends to like you, and to want to hang out more in the future.
